The adventure of raising three kids, four years apart, and trying to have fun along the way.
Wednesday, August 6, 2014
Happy New Year!
Sunday, April 20, 2014
Happy Easter y'all!
Wednesday, February 19, 2014
The sweetest Brownie ever
To the bestest brown dog ever, you will be missed sweet girl, we love you Brownie.
Sunday, July 7, 2013
What to do on a rainy day? Get creative!
episode on HGTV, or the Disney Channel, before you just need a change of scenery.
| Nothing says "Happy Birthday, America" like a trip to The Varsity! |
| Quick break in the drizzle for sparklers on the 4th |
| Hannah, inspired by HGTV is adding a modern touch to a vintage dresser with new knobs. An easy project even for children. |
| Nothing says rainy day escape like bike shopping! |
| Gettin' crafty |
| Timeless Headband |
| Rockin' Cuff |
Thursday, July 4, 2013
My little man
Waking this morning, besides the startling discovery of the early time, was what seems to be a more routine discovery as of late of the sleeping 10-year old beside me. Sounds in the night, especially wind and rain, are cause for alarm for her - or more likely cause to have a Mom-worthy excuse to need the safety of her parents room. So, as I have every morning this week I also woke to a most precious angel - who is now almost the height of me, mind you - cuddling up for comfort. She, of course, is still sleeping peacefully through the rain which caused her waking earlier in the evening. Although as is her pattern she too will wake soon before it seems to make sense because she has a wonderful gift of being a morning person very much unlike me.
In the stillness of this morning I also remember who is not under my roof, my little man, Charlie. He is off for fun and adventure at the lake with his cousin. While I'm sure he will have a fantastic time, returning home with more stories than you can possibly imagine which he will be so excited to share in painstaking detail, I miss him. It's a moment that makes me reflect on the not-so-distant future where my children will have things they chose to do that do not involve them spending time with their Mom and Dad, so weird. This is a next step that I'm not ready for yet, or at least have not begun to let myself even think about, and today has made me realize it is time to start adjusting my thinking.
As I think about what I am writing I sound like a crazy woman - sitting here in this serene moment, writing on my back porch at an unusually early time in the morning (for her), and choosing to fret about my 13-year old son not being with her for the day. Yep, sounds completely logical to me. It is not that he chooses to do something else it is that it is a symbolic representation of what is to come. Today is Independence Day, the 4th of July, when we should be together as a family - eating hot dogs, swimming at the pool (or better today with the rain - complaining that we aren't swimming), trying to catch a glimpse of a firework somewhere, me afraid that a child will burn down the house with a sparkler - and instead we're not. Weird, and a little sad for me.
So, I will go back to listening to the sound of the rain as it falls gently on the awning above me, to the birds as they tweet a delicate melody no one will ever do justice to replicate, be thankful that my over five feet tall 10-year old would give anything to cuddle with me each night, and remember when my little man really was little and I would get up at this time of the morning because he needed me to, and that was all the reason I needed.
Happy 4th of July y'all, and Happy (Start of) Independence to my little man.
Sunday, June 23, 2013
Our Family, In Lilly's Words
Saturday, June 8, 2013
The Wisdom of Lilly
Fast forward - first blood donation went well, ate the cookies, they loaded me down with snacks for my kids & drinks for me, I headed to the pool next door after being told I shouldn't plan to do anything this afternoon (figured the mile walk back might not be smart). Kids and Kelley arrive, they swim, I read and drink lots of water, we head home.
The ride home, while short, was full of lots of questions about blood types, blood donation, why they give you snacks after blood donation. In the middle of a great educational conversation about blood types, and how your blood type is determined, Lilly pipes out of nowhere, "And, that's why you can't marry your cousin, 'cause your baby'll come out weird." Wait, what? The wisdom of Lilly.
Sunday, March 24, 2013
When Sickness Attacks
Many in our area have been experiencing an awful stomach bug that somehow our family has been able to avoid. This past week, however, it crept up upon us in the middle of the night, when we are at our weakest. It's like it knows, wait until everyone is resting and peaceful, then attack!
Child one, Hannah, went down just as Thursday was starting and while it was a long night things were spaced out enough that the parents could tag team caring for her and clean-up, and all involved were able to get a little sleep in between. The rest of Thursday brought on mild fever, and general puny-ness but it also hadn't brought on any other sick children, or parents for that matter. Both my husband and I spent the day feeling icky, but didn't know if it was real ick or just the thought we'd end up sick after what we had experienced the night before. Overall we managed the day, and at the end felt victorious as only one of the five had officially succumbed to this plague.
Friday would bring Kelley and Charlie leaving for a weekend retreat, while Hannah showed signs of returning to normal, but then at the end of the day it was apparent Lilly wasn't herself. Because everyone else seemed good I chocked it up to Lilly just being tired from a day of school and play. I'm sure you see where this is going. Friday night, scratch that, early Saturday morning just as I had fallen asleep it was Lilly's turn. This time we were down by one parent, but I wasn't that worried having just gone through this two nights before I was the pro, and knew what was coming next. The first two times Lilly was sick I was preparing her for what was next. By the third time she had the drill down and her precious face was stuck down in the trash can before she even knew what was coming. Nothing like the sense of accomplishment your child feels when they realize all their throw up made it in the trash can and not on themselves or the stuff around them. Sweet victory! She wanted me to sleep with her on her pallet. Thinking this wasn't the best idea since I'd be an easy target, I opted to lay on the floor at the head of the pallet. Not the most comfortable position with my head in the bathroom doorway, and legs extending up under my bed, but it worked. (Side note: my back is still killing me but sometimes the pain is worth the sacrifice for our kids. however, need to figure out a better option next time.)
By the fourth time I was letting her know there were only one or two more times to go. Also at this point her sister, sleeping on the other pallet in my room, was waking up each time as well to share her stories of pain, and encourage her sister. The best was one of the last times when Lilly was crying out in pain, Hannah told her to just think happy thoughts and don't think about what's happening that way it won't hurt so bad. So sweet. It's these moments that they demonstrate how much they truly love one another. Where Hannah had been fairly quiet when she was sick, Lilly was very vocal about how much it hurt and equally how much she missed her Daddy. Lilly sounded like me going through natural childbirth, and Hannah, like my last delivery when you know it's not easy or fun but everything about it just seems peaceful.
Finally we made it through the night. The next morning Lilly was proud of the fact that she holds the record for most times getting sick for this round. I think she counted 9, where Hannah only had 6 or 7. Both girls main concern was not the night before and lack of sleep, or pouring rain outside, but the fact they were about to miss their first soccer game of the season. Thankfully, the rain caused that to be cancelled and also provided a great day to stay inside for rest and recovery.
As soon as we were settled in our new, clean spots for the day it was time for Lilly to get to talk to Daddy. Little did we know he had a treat for us - Charlie had also been struck with the bug, only he wasn't in the comfort of home, he was at camp, with 100 other kids, and no running water in their cabin. Always glad Kelley is able to go along on these retreats but particularly glad this time because it meant Charlie could retreat to the quiet of his private room to complete his sickness. After the brief moment of sadness because I wasn't able to be there for him, and the sad realization that he had thrown up all by himself in a bathroom stall , I resolved to channel that sadness into action.
It was time for Laundry-geddon! My counter-attack began with Lysol and Clorox wipes attacking the low ground, while anything that could be washed was to cover the high ground. As I write this the mission is still going on as there are two more loads of sheets to wash, and one or two loads of clothes but then sweet victory will be mine!
Today Hannah is back to crazy, bubbly, organized, entertaining Hannah. Where Friday night she didn't want ice cream, but then caved and ate a little vanilla (side note: if she doesn't want ice cream or something chocolate you know something's wrong.), last night she was eating Chick-fil-a and this morning Chocolate Chip pancakes. We are in the clear with her!
Lilly & Charlie are right where Hannah was yesterday - still puny, happy to lay on their pallet watching Disney movies, and occasionally playing Wii, giving in to my nagging requests to drink more water, willing to eat some crackers and a small bite of ice cream only because I say so.
Much to everyone's sadness they will probably all be good to go by tomorrow just in time to head back to school. I will have a house full of clean sheets and freshly laundered comforters. But the cheap Ikea pillow I bought as decoration for Lilly's bed well, jury's still out on that one, but it may be finding a new home at the dump.
Thursday, August 16, 2012
School
School isn't a walk in the park. It takes time and being in fourth grade i know what its like. so when starting a whole new chapter in life you have to take time and read it and i have noticed that. Don't hurry take your time and join the team and go slow.Rock and roll takes time even to.
Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Big Loss Today! Lilly's First Top Tooth is no Longer on the Loose!
A big start to the night in the Davenport household - Lilly was crunching on a crouton when one of her top teeth, which has been just a little loose, suddenly started to sprint to freedom. After a couple of mouth rinses, a quick tug on the tooth by Miss Lilly herself released the tooth from the chains that have held it these last eight years. And like that, Lilly is a toothless wonder again.
Thursday, July 5, 2012
Oh, my
- Sarah D.
Just Another Morning on Vacation
Cant wait for lilly to take the picture cant seem to take one the right way. now charlies in my dads armpit in the picture ha ha ha. laugh like a crazy family. crazy crazy family yyaaayyy!!!!!!!!!!!
- Hannah D.
Crazy Family Photo Time (Lilly D.)
Happy July 4th
Thursday, December 15, 2011
Ah, Where Has the Time Gone?
Monday, October 20, 2008
Pink Party!
Friday, October 17, 2008
Hannah McCay
Hard to believe that Hannah will be six years old tomorrow!Tomorrow will be a special day filled with lots and lots of pink, and friends, and family! She has already requested a date with Daddy to Waffle House for breakfast, and they have to sit at the counter. Tonight we decorate; she has been quite concerned that the decorations are not in place, but I was hoping to surprise her....not my little party planner, she wants to make sure everything is perfect! I am so proud!
This morning while everyone else in the house was asleep, we had quality time together baking cookies for her birthday celebration at school. She was very clear that she wanted sugar cookies, and chocolate chip to make sure there was a choice. Another important piece was that everyone should be able to have two cookies. Happy to report that our baking was a success and there will be lots of cookies for everyone! She has been looking forward to this celebration since her first day of school back in February. Frequently over the past months we have had talks about what would happen on her celebration day. Just as we have been counting down the days to her birthday she has been counting the days to her celebration!
While the cookies baked we had a chance to sit and look over pictures that she was taking to school to make a timeline. I printed photos from when she four months up until our trip to the beach a couple weeks ago. She has grown into such a sweet and loving child over the past six years, and she is still as beautiful as the day she was born. I am looking forward to watching as she learns and grows even more in this next year.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Okay, so it's been a while
Week started off icky with Charile & Hannah going to the doctor. Thankfully Kelley was able to stay home from work to take care of the babies. Both have a sinus infection and cough, and are now being treated with medicine. Thankfully they are not contagious, but that hasn't kept Kelley and me from having scratchy throats. Hopefully we will get all the sickness out of the way now before the holidays arrive!
On Monday (10/13) Charlie lost his third tooth (on the top, in the front). He was too cute when he called me at work singing "all I want for Christmas is my two front teeth"! He is just the cutest boy, and with the loss of each tooth he melts my heart even more. To hear him talk you can detect a slight whistle, precious! Financially he is doing quite well with losing three teeth since February. The cash just continues to roll in under his pillow from the tooth fairy. I'm thinking of pulling some my teeth for cash! At school, he is getting ready for a Historical Pageant and he wants to portray Neil Armstrong. These next couple weeks we will be creating an astronaut costume at home....should be fun!
Hannah is counting down the days until her birthday. Saturday she turns the big SIX! I cannot believe that she is going to be six, yes, I am in denial, let me stay there for a couple months. She is also such a beautiful girl inside and out. We cut her hair (short) and it seems to suit her so well. But, it is making her look less like a baby. Where did this big girl come from all of a sudden? She is reading so well and enjoys making lists. Hannah definetly has her mama's addiction to lists! Monday night she made a list of everything that needs to be done for her party and who was in charge of what. Kelley was wondering why she put him in charge of just preparing everything -- he has to make a pinata, and a pin the nose on the clown game! One thing is for sure, Hannah knows what she wants. Yesterday at school she was stung by a bee! Don't know how things went at school when it happened but by dinner she didn't seem to be bothered and was showing off where she was stung (on her face, ouch!). She has recently expressed that she would like to be a fashion designer when she grows up. This morning she laid out Charlie's clothes for him so she is already training as a stylist. I can't wait for the day that she starts telling me how to dress...should be interesting!
Lilly, where do I start, she is Lilly! A continuous bundle of energy that can be channeled for good or bad, that's my girl! Sunday night while Kelley was at church she decided to play daddy. This being a good idea to her because it means she gets to boss around her big brother and sister, and sleep in my room. She was in character the entire night, and did not like it when I would call her Lilly. Even Charlie and Hannah played along and started calling her "Dally" (a mix of Daddy and Lilly). Throughout the night she called me "Honey"....which I found funny because Kelley doesn't frequently call me that, interesting what children pick up I guess. When Kelley got home she was happy to revert to being just Lilly and cuddling in my lap. For all the frustrations we have with her at times, she is such a loving child. Instinctively, she knows just the right thing to say at the right time. I have some of the best conversations with her, and she seems to genuinely care about my answers to her questions ("What you doin'?", "How was your work today?"). You gotta love some Lilly! Her haircut from last week is also priceless on her! Short 'n sassy, that's what we call it and it is her to a T!
At this point I should probably write something interesting about Kelley and me but I'm not sure what to say. I managed to wake up at the crack of dawn to walk this morning which has been getting increasingly more difficult the colder it gets! Kelley has been wonderful this week to take care of the children on Monday and pick up from school on Tuesday. Tonight we are hosting small group at our house so after work we will be cooking chili and cleaning. Believe it or not I am actually looking forward to those activities! Today work has been so quiet, it will be nice to be up and moving around. Plus, we get to see some of our friends!
To whomever may read this, thank you for sticking with me to the end. For my sake, I hope to write again soon!
